Top Posing Tips for Natural Portraits: How to Photograph People Who Feel Awkward on Camera — Matthew Jordan Smith

The Secret to the Best Poses: How to Photograph People Who Aren’t Comfortable in Front of the Camera

If you've ever typed "best poses for photos" or "top ten photography poses" into Google, you're not alone. As a professional photographer with decades of experience, including photographing some of today’s biggest celebrities, I’ve heard countless questions during my weekly live photography training sessions about how to pose people—especially those who aren’t naturally comfortable in front of the camera.

Let me start by saying this: the best poses don’t come from a rulebook. There’s no one-size-fits-all approach when it comes to posing. In fact, I’ve never been a fan of saying things like, “Put your hand here,” or “Turn your feet that way.” Why? Because no two people are alike, and posing like it’s 1980 just doesn’t fly in today’s visual world.

Posing Tip #1: It’s Not About the Pose—It’s About the Feeling

Whether you’re photographing a celebrity, a business executive, or someone who swears they “never look good in pictures,” the key is to make your subject feel at ease. Comfort leads to confidence, and confidence leads to natural, beautiful poses.

As a celebrity photographer, I’m often given just 15 minutes to capture a portrait that may be seen by millions. In that small window, there's no time for robotic posing instructions. Instead, I focus on creating an environment where the subject feels relaxed, inspired, and even excited to be in front of the camera.

Photograph by Matthew Jordan Smith

Posing Tip #2: Set the Mood With Music

One of my favorite tools for breaking the ice and helping clients forget the camera is music. But not just any music—songs you’d hear at a karaoke bar or wedding party—crowd favorites that bring good vibes and nostalgia. Even if you don’t know your subject's personal taste, upbeat, recognizable tracks can ease nerves and inject energy into the session.

Photography posing is just as much about vibe as it is about visuals. Music can trigger emotion, help people loosen up, and lead to the kind of spontaneous expressions and movements that result in the best candid poses.

Photograph by Matthew Jordan Smith

Posing Tip #3: Bring the Right Energy

Your energy as the photographer sets the tone. If you’re anxious, rushed, or overly technical, your subject will feel it. Instead, engage with your subject, learn about them beforehand if possible, and be someone they can trust—even if just for 15 minutes.

The best posing tips for beginners and pros alike? Lead with empathy, not instructions. Instead of barking out pose-by-numbers directions, guide your subject with natural prompts:
👉 "Take a deep breath and exhale."
👉 "Look toward the light like you're soaking up the sun."
👉 "Give me a smile you’d give your best friend."

This kind of direction results in images that feel alive—not stiff.

Photograph by Matthew Jordan Smith

The Ultimate Photography Posing Secret

Here’s what I’ve learned over the years: If you can create a memorable experience for your subject, you’re not just taking a picture—you’re capturing a moment. That memory will stay with them. And that’s how you build trust, repeat clients, and portraits that people love.

So, if you're looking to master top ten poses for portraits, remember it’s less about angles and more about atmosphere.

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About the Author

Matthew Jordan Smith is a renowned celebrity, fashion, and beauty photographer, Nikon Ambassador, and international speaker. He has photographed some of the world’s most iconic personalities and worked with leading brands in the fashion and entertainment industries.

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